@engineer,
If we are to talk about it here are some of the questions along with my current answers
1) what should AOC be? 14, though I can live with 15.
2) Should the AOC be uniform across the nation? Yes
3) should the feds force the states to adopt uniform AOC laws like they have forced them to adopt fed rules on speed limits, BAC limits, campus sexual assault processes and so on? No, on principle I want Washington to stop being the authoritarian bully, the fact that I want something to get done does not negate that
4) If two people under the AOC are suspected of sex, or one under and one near, what should happen? Referral to the public health system for a look see, maybe resulting in an education interview, maybe resulting in future interviews.
5) if one person is substantially older than AOC and one is under AOC, and the younger claims that they would consent if the state allowed it, what should happen? Referral to the public health system with mandatory interview, with possible referral the the "justice" system.
6) the (5) situation where the one under AOC claims they would not consent if allowed, what happens? The "Justice" system takes the lead, as they do now.