@TheCobbler,
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There are two "golden rules" in the New Testament and they conflict with each other.
One rule states:
Do unto others as you would have done unto you. (eye for an eye)
The other rule states (allegedly also spoken by Jesus):
Love others as I have loved you (unconditional love)
I was speaking of the rule written in your soul or heart, not the bible, but the way you have twisted these two helps explains your later example of how people twist the one in their hearts when they hate themselves.
To equate the first rule with 'eye for an eye' implies that other's first impulse is harm rather than good. Is that true of you?
The second one you mentioned, love others as I have loved you, you distorted into a contradiction. His default position is to love us as we should also do. But if your final decision in life is to hate and do evil, his love for you will end with your death. His love for us is not unconditional nor should it be, for what would be the purpose in loving that which ends up unworthy of love?
Setting unconditional love as your ideal and standard means you will fail. You will end up hating yourself for your failure.