All lifestyles have intrinsic detriments.. it's called. "getting old", dying, memory loss, being buried in the ground (highly detrimental to life).
And not taking one's self and a pie in the sky version of God too seriously..
Then to not impose subjective detriments on some else's personal lifestyle.
Don't be a detriment to someone else's personal life.
Anti LGBT standards are wrong and there will be grace and mercy only for those who deny those homophobic, anti LGBT standards. Those who obey those homophobic anti LGBT standards will themselves in return be judged and scrutinized by those harsh and heartless standards.