I also want to point out, Izzy, that there is a big difference between attacking a person and attacking an argument.
You never miss a chance to lecture, adopt a superior moral tone. This is what you've been doing all along.
I have never called you a 'liar'.
And? I called you a liar because you lied. You deliberately lied when you tried to give the impression that you were solely responsible for a child(ren) and had been for a number of years. You can argue semantics about whether or not it was an actual lie, but you definitely wanted to give a false impression. You do not have sole responsibility for your child, you share that responsibility. Your child has two parents they don't miss the one who is not there. You have not had to try to explain to a 4 year old little boy why his mother is dead.
I don't believe a word you say.
Also, I think someone who fantasises about killing babies and posts graphic pictures of murder victims online is pretty despicable. It crosses a line, and if you can't see that line, if you still think it's possible to have an 'intelligent respectful discussion,' with a creature like that, then clearly you're alright with that.
I'd rather talk to people who share my feelings of disgust, people who aren't alright about that.
You talk to Oralboy, you have plenty of shared values, particularly towards women. Leave me out of it, I can't see the point in talking to you, really I can't.