@Patches,
In the OP, I believe you refer to God's spirit as "He". That would reflect a lack of scholarship. The Greek of the Bible text uses gender qualifications for nouns. As it is, the Greek 'pneuma', meaning 'spirit' is masculine. Hence it is referred to as 'he'. This is of no more an assignment of personality than would be your perception of your boat as 'she'.
God's spirit is identified as a force in Genesis 1:2. It is not a person.