@Butrflynet,
Funny some of the ideas listed we had thought of -- or are actually doing...the karoke - D&B actually is really helpful - they are trying to help me out to see how we can hook up my machine to their TV - as it is surround sound and a bit different than the normal hook up.
I thought of the candy bar sort of thing - depends on how much time I have. I will see if the glossy works on both sides - isn't that how cards are - I think I've only seen one sided glossy.
We were orignally going to do laser tag/go carts and then have a room for dancing and food - but the place was going to stop the go carts before our party (outdoors too cold) and the laser tag is going to be turned into a haunted house for October.
She didn't want paint ball as we suggested and D&B was so helpful and the room is really nice - they do all the tables up with the colors you want in cloth (rather than cheap paper) - the room looks really nice and it over looks the floor where all the video games are -- you can close the shades if you want so no one can look in the room. Just a better nice set up and food choices are perfect for the age group.
So since she was part of the planning and she did up her own invitations - I wanted to make a few surprises for her. Fun - I found some old school papers and things I plan on putting out - thoughts on how to display them? I found one that she wrote I don't know how old she was where said I like or love and then wrote the boys name -- some of the kids coming will know him so I find that funny to place out. I also have a couple of notes/pictures she made when she was young that was supposed to be given to a couple of girls coming - thought it would be fun to surprise them with this gift.