Yes she has access to a weight room. We have a Y membership and she had training to use the machines with focus on her legs. We all use the Y regularly.
In addition she goes 4 or 5 days a week for sports performance training as I stated above...maybe I wasn't clear on how often she goes. I switched my days working from home so I could make sure I could bring her. This training is focused specifically on the needs of student athletes and is does a combination of sports conditioning and weight lifting.
She has muscle definition she simply has a small build. We talked to the doctor and she has muscle building ensure to supplement her as a result. She is extremely athletic...she can jump higher than I have most girls and has caught line drives that one would think she is too short as a result.
We try to be honest with her about which colleges to focus on (but I honestly do not know how much they look at size or if a D1 would immediately write her off because of it)... why we have her pursuing a division 1 that has just moved into division 1 rather than a top D1 school for example. Also trying to focus on the academics, size of school and environment that would fit her.
We are doing a search today for more schools just to see what else is out there. I have no doubt she will play college ball...just what level and what school, but obviously as a parent I would like to help her make the college of her choice.