@ossobuco,
I'll add that my first exposures, heh, to the photographer Garry Winogrand put me off, so sloppy! He was, to me, the anti- Henri Cartier Bresson (or others I could go on about, like Marc Riboud), still is, but now I get him.
Selfies have some of that sloppy bravado, as do a lot of phone photos. Most are kind of dross (I know it's not an adjective, but it is for me) while maybe important to the person, but some, by the nature of the moment and spark art, could be golden.