@aquestion,
I'm a little confused... so will ask a question here.
What does having a mistress / girlfriend - got to do with division of financial assets? My belief - and understanding from the UK - is that division of assets within the marriage has no relevance as to the reasons for divorce.
Maybe I am just reading the question wrongly here.
I don't quite understand why obtaining photographic of evidence of adultery would come into play for what the wife is legally entitled to. If it were photographic evidence that the husband was buying boats and cars and condos etc..... then those are financial assets....
how would a photograph of the husband being with a girlfriend make a difference to the division of the financial assets - other than to prove adultery - but if it's been 5 years then is it not the case in the US that the divorce could go uncontested anyway? If the husband and wife have been living apart for 5 years in difference countries.... I would imagine the divorce would be uncontested. If agreements can't be reached, or children are involved - then lawyers would need to get involved to ensure that each party receives what they are entitled too.
Photographic evidence to prove financial assets - yep, could see how that works.
Including the mistress in the photo???? I'm not sure I see how that is relevant at all??? After 5 years and living in different countries.....
Look forward to hearing replies to this too - thanks.
(I only think this because when my brother and his ex wife were divorced, she was going on lots of holidays etc and having a high life, whilst claiming poverty etc.... the lawyers who acted for my brother said that "the rich boyfriend" could pay for and take her anywhere she wanted and her lifestyle had nothing to do with division of assets - even if my brother couldn't make ends meet at the time. Therefore, whatever was financially gained in the marriage was divided up based on length of marriage / child /what was brought into the marriage / and ability for both parties to be able to "financially" live. (you can't take what someone hasn't got). The reasons for the divorce (uncontested adultery), or what went on during the marriage, were neither here not there. Absolutely nothing to do with financial split.)