feedback would be appreciated. It's in the interest of a sociological experiment...
Some further information for these scenarios:
In scenario 1 (you) the parent(s) have tried several times to conceive with no success. You are left discouraged (and deeply saddened) to say the least about attempting pregnancy again.
In scenario 2 as a result of the disaster you are facing years of litigation and possibly filing for bankruptcy. Also you've lost irreplaceable heirlooms left to you by your parents who have long since passed on.
But which leaves you the worse for the wear?