Do men like taking virginitys?

Please return to the present day from 1647.

This is a question site so please deal with what you can't answer.

Not the men I am familiar with.



Which girls?
Who says they do?

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Please enlighten me as to what this site is all about.

Rape fantasies exist, yes. And there are some men who seem to get off on deflowering women. There are also men who enjoy anal sex, watching porn, or sex in public or any of perhaps millions of other variations. But none of these men are in the majority.

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The way adults treat children is fundamentally based on the state of their inner child. When a man rapes a young boy, they are subconsciously expressing their anger towards themselves for losing their inner boy, as to say to their inner child "You will not take over my adult-hood. I will dominate you in reality through a boy that has no relevance to you, my inner child", for an example. The "innocence" of children is creating psychical deformation within people's powerful minds that serve as metaphysical mirrors, hence why you can tell a lot by what people wear, what their house is decorated as, what weapons they use or what beliefs they are personally defending.

One could only consider themselves a fool for not realizing that they see themselves in objects and people. Adults envy the child's enthusiasm on a psychical level.

Can't take someone's virginity as it doesn't literally exist, but the in's and out's of that is another discussion. Can only give your virgin-status to someone. It isn't anything physical so can't be taken.

No one dreams or fantasizes about being raped. A word not used much anyone is 'ravished' what is what they may fantasize about. It used to refer to 'rape but without force or threats used.' Being overpowered and having a positive sexual experience is actually a very common fantasy. But no one dreams about being dragged into a filthy alleyway, having a knife held to their throat or getting beaten into submission then violently penetrated and assaulted as with actual rapes.

It seems to me that the word "deflower" and the word "destroy" are completely different words with completely different meanings. They don't even have any definitions in common.

It is a bit disturbing to see these two words being used interchangeably. The implication is that any woman who has had sex has been "destroyed".

The question concerns the vast confusion about sex in general.

People think they want to have sex but what they really want is intimacy. When the physical act of sex does not give them that, they think 'they're not doing it right' so they envision more exotic ways to do it. Maybe a new partner, a new position, a new fantasy scenario. May be good for a thrill but the hunger for intimacy is not satisfied.

Hmmm Leadfoot. I am pretty sure that sometimes people just want to have sex.

Of course they do, I even said it was a thrill.

But that alone does not satisfy the underlying need for intimacy.

You can have intimacy without sex. You can have sex without intimacy. You can have intimacy with one person while having sex with another.

I think it is a mistake to think these two human needs always go together.

I didn't say they always went together. In fact, I inferred just the opposit.
What I said is that sex does not satisfy the need for intimacy and that many mistake the need for intimacy for the need for sex.

So what are you really trying to say?

Would you agree the opposite is true?

Intimacy does not satisfy the need for sex and that many mistake the need for sex for the need for intimacy.

Sometimes what a person really needs is just sex.

That requires a more nuanced reply.
To the extent that people often mistake the need for intimacy for the need for sex, yes, filling the need for intimacy can eliminate that misinterpreted need for sex.

The need for sex is a biological function of hormones and is real but if you are close enough to another person to engage in sex, it seems a crying shame that you don't take the opportunity to be intimate as well. Once you have enjoyed them together, it's hard for me to imagine wanting just sex.

I have no moral objections to paying for sex with a prostitute or sex with multiple people, but without intimacy, I just ain't interested. Its comparatively boring and not worth the hassles.