I seldom use thumbs up or down, but only because I'm more interested in what is written than voting. You are much younger than your years. I can't speak for anyone else, but your full bore obsession with that poor soul has been going on since the 1st of December. Frankly, it's creepy. When you get called on the disturbing behaviour, you back up and say we misunderstood what you've said. You've rewritten the whole Jason/Justin whatever his name was soul mate fantasy.
Seriously, to assume the women would be ganging up on you is more than a little nuts. Some of the men here have children, and you sound like a parents worst nightmare. You are trouble, you don't realize it, get help for this obsessive predatory behaviour. You need a professional to help you sort out why you fixate on those poor men who made eye contact with you.
I normally drop these crazy threads, but I think many of us are trying to parent you, but to no avail. It's more than a little disturbing that you continue with this obsession. In 10 more days it will be a three month equestrian extravaganza over "I'm going to find out Tuesday", "cross you fingers it might be Wednesday" and on and on and on. I don't think this will stop until you lock eyes with the mailman or the dry cleaner, and then it's OMG I just found a new love interest. I'm really hoping you get help before you subject us to another stalking horror story. And for Christ's sake can you quit all the lols? I don't see anything humorous, I don't think you do either. You don't even realize when some of the guys make fun of you, you apparently think it's banter.
I'm at a loss on how to help you. I can share with you that when my son was in his mid to late teens, I was shocked at the phone calls he got from disturbed young girls. I heard other women talk about aggressive some girls were regarding their teen sons. I thought they were over protective, or exaggerating the situation. Then I suddenly have a son who turned 14, and teen girls were calling like they were in heat. I was shocked, then I wondered what their home life was like. I'm not talking about the 1 AM phone calls, I'm thinking more about the the phone call where I hear my son say "are you nuts, I've been grounded 2 weeks, why would I sneak out of the house and meet you near the railroad tracks in the middle of the night?" So on one hand, I'm happy that he refused, but for the life of me I can't figure out where railroad tracks would be within 50 miles of our home. Also, this young girl trying to meet up with boys she barely knows trying to arrange a middle of the night whatever on a school night.
You are not chasing after 14 year old boys, you're fantasizing about men about 10 years older than you. This is so unhealthy for you and so dangerous for these men. If you were well balanced, you would realize what a mess you could be for these men. I would like you to be safe and the objects of your obsessions to be spared any anguish.
I'm going to put you on ignore, you won't accept any of the advise that seasoned adults offer, you think ridicule is positive attention from men, and if you are actually a real person, I'm a mother, I can't waste anymore concern for you. I've given you almost three months, I'm done. Good luck and I sincerely hope you don't wind up a statistic.