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Are construction workers easy to talk to?

 
 
Butrflynet
 
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Reply Mon 3 Feb, 2014 09:07 pm
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
She isn't the one who keeps bringing new life to this thread after it has been dormant for several days.

If you don't like the rawness, stop picking at it and let it heal.


ossobuco
 
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Reply Mon 3 Feb, 2014 09:11 pm
@Butrflynet,
She just did, with the new piecemeal notice of not meeting him yet.

"If you don't like the rawness, stop picking at it and let it heal."
What does this mean? You want all of us to promote this?
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Mon 3 Feb, 2014 09:13 pm
@ossobuco,
You suggest me reading novels? How about just reading a chapter book? I'm not much of a reader, I'm not the type who sits down and reads books. But I can certainly force myself to read to increase in capabilities and improve my weaknesses. That would be the incentive. However, I couldn't force myself to read something that would bore me to sleep.

I do have anxiety to a degree. Coffee in the morning has spiked up my anxiety, so as a result of that I've stopped drinking coffee
ossobuco
 
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Reply Mon 3 Feb, 2014 10:00 pm
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
For those who do like to read, and maybe there is some changeover from those who hated it to liking it, and some stopping reading, it isn't any forcing. When I finally can't read, I'll be cooked and done. But that's me. How about movies?

You have anxiety to a degree? I think a lot of us are here since we perceive your anxiety.
ossobuco
 
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Reply Mon 3 Feb, 2014 10:02 pm
@ossobuco,
Oh, and books vary. Many are not at all boring once they get going.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Tue 4 Feb, 2014 05:15 am
@ossobuco,
I'd rather just read to improve than movies... But I have two books open to read for myself. "Legends of winter hill" and "The things they carried." Guess I'll start somewhere.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Tue 4 Feb, 2014 05:31 am
@IRFRANK,
Also, it has been interfering with daily life, the thought of wanting to speed up on this whole process and get to meeting him. I've realized it's unhealthy as I was experiencing that, but definitely going to take over control and allow other things to take up my mind, than this.
ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 4 Feb, 2014 10:47 am
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
Good!
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IRFRANK
 
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Reply Tue 4 Feb, 2014 10:53 am
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
That's a good realization.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 07:00 pm
How does one(me in particular in this instance) grab out the honest age of a construction worker? Anyone could lie. I myself am sure I'd be guilty of at least wanting to lie about my age, but I won't. I just don't know how to ask someone their age. I mean, I tried asking Lordy his age and that let alone was difficult enough, never even got an answer. But was told too personal information. How do I go about asking this man his age? Without crossing the boundaries of "too personal"? Although shouldn't I have a right of knowing personals, that's all involved in meeting a person.
glitterbag
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 07:50 pm
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
No, you do not have the right to ask personal questions. Well, obviously you can, but it doesn't mean others have to surrender their privacy to assuage your nosiness. The last I remember you were fixated on a hapless construction worker, what difference does it make to you what age his Lordship is.

Try these questions on for size:
How old are you?
Do you belong to an acceptable religious order
How much money does your dad make ( Round Figures will work)
What about net worth? What's that number?
Do you have any STD's, don't leave out any brothers or sister, or the youngest as aunts and uncles.
How much do you weigh, do you bathe on a frequent basis.
How much do you think your house is worth.


The above are examples of questions that should be answered as "that's not your business" or " what on gods green earth makes you thing I will answer that.
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 07:51 pm
Also, I don't know if any of you have experience in this topic but steely I've noticed even after I've got plenty of hours of sleep, I feel greatly fatigued. And I don't know what the problem is. More so as when the day goes on. I'm always a fitness/exercise, as well as health nut. I've looked it up and the culprit is due to many factors. Mostly in particular that stance out to me was, stress, anxiety and depression. Luckily I only have two more days until I'm at the construction site. But the thought of this whole thing has stressed me out. From thinking about it day to day, catching myself fantasizing which leads me to tellin myself to cut it out and get my mind off of it. I've noticed myself stressing out over his age now, not knowing what it could be. I don't mean to come off as a cry for pity here, but if anyone is educated regarding this it would be of much help.
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 07:55 pm
@glitterbag,
My intention of that post was to know how to properly ask a construction worker of his honest, again, honest age. It was focused primarily on the hapless construction worker. Not focused on Lordy. I was just using him for an example of reference.
glitterbag
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 08:28 pm
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
There is no proper way to walk up to a complete stranger and ask personal questions. You have been fixated on him since you first laid eyes on him. It will be a miracle if he does remember you. Maybe not a good miracle for him, suppose he spots you and thinks holy crap the nutcase who stared at me thru the trees is back.

Marriages don't last as long as the time you invested trying to track down 'the potentially' perfect construction worker? Is he married?, does he have children, will Equestrian find a life partner or does he already have a life partner. Nobody knows, and far fewer of us care.
IRFRANK
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 08:38 pm
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
This all sounds like anxiety to me, but I'm no psychologist. You are having a crush. Don't get mad at me. That is normal. You need to forget about this guy. Are you still in school? Over 18? Do you hang out with friends? Do you have any male friends? All this anguish is not good for you. If his age is so important then he is probably too old for you.
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 08:49 pm
@glitterbag,
He didn't see me or notice me at all through the duration of that time while I was standing there and walking around the vicinity. I feel like I have said this multiple times.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 08:54 pm
@glitterbag,
It will be one hell of a miracle if he has any recollection or memory of me. It's been almost 3 full months. End of November, for both of us. December, January, not all the way through of February(not sure what time zone you're in).
I forget who but someone on here had instructed me on to finding out his age. With that, I would need to ask. You can't just suppose or expect it's going to naturally come out.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 09:00 pm
@IRFRANK,
I believe you may be correct with this being anxiety related. Well, one more day counting tomorrow and my friend and I will be going down to the construction site. I feel as I am maybe anxious and nervous at the same time as to what I could be getting myself into. Obviously everyone would hope for the good and positive out of a situation like this, I just would hate for the outcome to be negative, heart-breaking, depressing, something I get myself wrapped up in and am unable to get in. Not looking for another heart break or reason to cry is what I think I'm trying to say. There's actually a country song along those same lines. Sung by faith hill or Shania Twain.
glitterbag
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 09:18 pm
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
I think you will better served by dropping this unhealthy fascination and learn to be fascinated by the world you actually live in.
IRFRANK
 
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Reply Mon 17 Feb, 2014 10:53 pm
@glitterbag,
Quote:

I think you will better served by dropping this unhealthy fascination and learn to be fascinated by the world you actually live in.


Excellent advise. There's two possibilities here.

1 EQFL is really this wrapped up in this fantasy and clearly refuses to listen to any of us.

Or

2. This is all a troll.

Either way it's getting boring. I hope it works out without any real damage.
 

 
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