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Are construction workers easy to talk to?

 
 
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Sun 5 Jan, 2014 09:04 am
@Butrflynet,
You're right, I'm glad you brought this to my attention.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Sun 5 Jan, 2014 09:04 am
@Butrflynet,
I'm glad you're telling me this. Thank you.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Sun 5 Jan, 2014 10:09 am
@Butrflynet,
Really have to bring these things into perspective and consideration
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Sun 5 Jan, 2014 11:16 am
I look at it this way. I'll either get hurt(can't avoid it) or have this decent, great what-I-was hoping for great experience. Either way, I'll become more wise and gain experience. More experience, more wisdom. Nothing to be unhappy or unappreciated about. In these past years, I've been through a lot mentally and emotionally. But I set myself up for it in a way. Got in too deep, too wrapped out, and didn't turn out the way I had wanted. Painful experiences, but it's what made me stronger and I couldn't be more thankful.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 5 Jan, 2014 11:23 am
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
Equestrianforlife7xo wrote:

I look at it this way. I'll either get hurt(can't avoid it) or have this decent, great what-I-was hoping for great experience.


Those aren't the only options, you might meet up, get on really well, but after about two dates you conclude he's the most tedious little tit you've ever met.

Have you seen Roxanne?

http://popreflection.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/steve-martin-roxanne.jpg
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Sun 5 Jan, 2014 11:48 am
@izzythepush,
No I have not seen Roxanne.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Sun 5 Jan, 2014 12:20 pm
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
It's very good, Roxanne is attracted to Steve Martin's workmate who's very good looking but completely vacuous. It's a very funny film, one of the last he made before he stopped being funny.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Sun 5 Jan, 2014 12:41 pm
Confirmed with my friend...I I will be going down to the construction site Tuesday afternoon. Optimism until then. Shocked
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Mon 6 Jan, 2014 07:11 am
Wish one of you could tag along with me. Feeling kind of nervous.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Tue 7 Jan, 2014 08:33 am
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
Day is switched to Thursday 😐
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glitterbag
 
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Reply Tue 14 Jan, 2014 10:55 pm
So this thread started on 1 Dec, and now it's 15 Jan 14, has the star crossed hopeful made contact yet with the construction worker? I would suggest we all save our posts just in case her body is found in a landfill. Cheers
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Wed 15 Jan, 2014 05:23 am
@glitterbag,
What you said was fine, but the last comment. Really? Lets not act like a child here. I don't care if you were being sarcastic. Save the sarcasm because we don't need it especially in terms of this. Also, be realistic.
panzade
 
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Reply Wed 15 Jan, 2014 09:01 am
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
Don't mind GB, she has a crusty sense of humour.. She wouldn't wish any tragedy to befall you I'm sure.
She just wants you to be safe.
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Wed 15 Jan, 2014 09:40 am
@panzade,
Ok I would hope so.
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Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Thu 16 Jan, 2014 11:26 am
Everyone: I'd like to take a moment to say thank you all so very much. Despite the arguments and dealing with misunderstandings and whatnot. I am overwhelmed with words to say. I have exams, as it continues the upcoming days. Got out early today, faced my anxiety, overcame my anxiety as I had been trying to back out and put off. I had told myself prior to the beginning of this week that this Thursday I would go down there, being the most convenient day of the week. So I kind of hesitantly but at the same time rushing down there. There was a crosswalk cop standing in the vicinity I had to walk by, and also the school building classroom windows. I get nervous from my surrounding because not knowing who would see me and wonder why out through he window. Especially, if you're talking about a teacher of mine, they might be suspectful. Got through that, the cop didn't look at me, didn't even look like he noticed me or was paying attention. Walked a little further because there's a small path between the construction site and the present school and normally, you wouldn't see some random girl walking through there, you know. Lol. Made it by, stayed in a spot hesitating to go further to the school field where the rest of the construction site was because the school, I was basically in the back so someone could look out and see me. For some that really sparked my nerves and anxiety up, being seen by someone and them thinkin what the heck. But once I got through it, I was fine. Finally got myself to a convenient spot. Now, THANK THE GOOD LORD ALMIGHTY. The guy in the cat is still there. He's been there all along, and I've been stressing when I didn't see him anymore. It's a different section of the construction site, and it makes sense to me. I was there for about 2 hours keeping a watch. I don't know if anyone is aware of how they have the dark green covering, tall fences guarding off the site, really obstructs views so I guess I wouldn't be obvious to anyone walking by me. Worked for me because the few construction workers who walks by didn't notice me, unless they really don't pay attention to the outside...probably the answer. I must say, I was deep breathing standing there at the beginning, but over time, not too long until my anxiety lessened and I feel more relaxed. There's something about the scent, maybe it's a combination of scent and site, but of a construction site that really relieves my anxiety. I feel wonderful. No tension or anything. Anyways, I gathered up a plan to us both seeing each other again and communicating. I did have voices in my head saying: be cautious. As I saw "no trespassing" signs etc. the track gate is locked, however, with my friend we could certainly climb over, not like there will be any wrong doing just walking the track. Or we could walk all the way around into the woods but that might be much more complicated. Well needless to say I do feel pretty damn accomplished. Smile
Ticomaya
 
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Reply Thu 16 Jan, 2014 11:49 am
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
http://imageshack.us/a/img33/8277/emoticonblinkbykidaooka.gif
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Thu 16 Jan, 2014 12:22 pm
@Ticomaya,
Meaning?
glitterbag
 
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Reply Thu 16 Jan, 2014 12:58 pm
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
Damn girl, you're acting like a stalker!!!! Not only are you not noticing the alarm sign it seems you are now the person the construction worker should be alarmed by. You are disregarding no trespassing signs, planning to climb over locked fences and then luxuriating in the moment. I think this blind obsession started around 1 December and now it's the 16th of January!!!!!!

As you go all stelthy creeping tru the woods stalking an unsuspecting construction worker (who by the way works to earn a living) has it occurred to you that somebody might already be on to you. Someone unsavory may have noticed you sneaking around, skipping class and making yourself a target and now is trying to figure out how he can work this to his advantage.

In other words, if someone is following you, while you follow the construction guy you could easily be blindsided by someone who is interested in something other than chatting with a teen. Can you please tell me WHY you are so reckless????? Don't confuse reckless with adventurous. Tico's emoticon is dead on, it means he think you just offered very alarming information. I would call it severely unbalanced, He is much nicer than me.
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Thu 16 Jan, 2014 01:19 pm
@glitterbag,
Calm down. I think you and whoever else this may pertain to is getting the wrong interpretation or I either sent out the wrong message. I was standing there looking. Not entering any "No tresspass" signs. Are you kidding me! I wouldn't have the guts to go beyond the limit, those signs are obviously put there for your own safety. You must think I'm out of my mind. And stalking??? Standing there watching(maybe the 2 hours comes off as stalking?) but there's nothing wrong with WATCHING a construction site in progress. This whole discussion has been based on preparing myself to speak to this construction worker. I would assume this is all part of it.
Equestrianforlife7xo
 
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Reply Thu 16 Jan, 2014 01:23 pm
@Equestrianforlife7xo,
Not implying stalking. Standing there, getting myself comfortable. My main purpose from today was to just see if he was even still on site. It was up in the air to whether he was on vacation or something. I would not have known if I had not ever taken the chance to go down there and really look. I spotted him and that was my green light sign, ok he's still there.
 

 
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