Lightwizard wrote: The U.S. has been very poor at promoting itself around the world because we often use the hard sell. Maybe we should be requiring that our diplomats go back to school and learn some ethical persuation.
To a large extent I think this is a bit backwards. The US certianly may hard sell at the UN and when dealing with governments at senior levels but once aid flows to the individual it's done without requiring much of anything on their part. When we setup a hospital, food bank, etc.. whoever shows up gets taken care with very few questions.
Bin Laden on the other hand, didn't deal with the UN or governments at all. His hard sell was straight to the individuals and they either became followers or, in the case of many, died. I don't believe that is a tactic we should be attempting to emulate.