@McGentrix,
McGentrix wrote:
I'd seriously push a stranger away pretty hard if they had approached my pregnant wife to rub her belly. There's just no room for that and it's bad manners.
You're getting no argument from me.
A lot of times though, it seems to come from other women, not men. Like it's some sort of "sisterhood" thing. Since I mostly rubbed the belly of my own sister, or close friend, I can get that...it was cool. Especially with my sister, there was that whole looking in each others eyes, being happy for her, knowing the baby was my niece.
When I unthinkingly did that in my younger years, it wasn't with bad intent, but know I realize it was imposing.
Babies don't interest me much, for some reason, pregnant women, with the baby growing inside them do.
To this day, when I see a pregnant woman, I'm always really interested in what's going on with them. Not the part that they'll be a mother, or have a baby out in the world, but the fact that their body is Growing it. And the fact that I can believe they are walking around with this huge load and how miserable it must be.