@maemandy,
Get to know your son. Because as a dad your going to be with him over your daughter.
Get to know his goals, wants, and what he is working on and what he could work on.
Invest time in your son. IT IS THE LAST DAY OF CLASS AND YOU HAVE TO
HAND IN YOUR THESIS. You did not do any research, you masturbated all that time to that girl that was too easy but never hit on. Now your running around like a chicken with it's head off because you know you have failed and
their is nothing you can do but face the music and hand in a half-baked written assignment as you drink coffee while you have some creepy girl giving
you a "massage" to keep you alert ( because you do not have a monkey with a
shock stick to keep you working ).
Research,
Get the tools,
Get the training
Deploy
Do your best at winning.
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The family tree rises and does not fall.
Children are a business they carry your DNA.
The bare minimum is for them to pass on your genes.
The highest maximum is for them to surpass you and then some more.
As a business make them a project. Like how you would get revenge on somebody, or how a raptor or hawk would watch it's prey with it's eyes.
However we are human so our potential is unlimited.
Twice people have invented the electronic eye. One using patients as test
subjects over a long period of time and another a wealthy invester who lost
his eye and made it wireless to an old phone.
Twice people have made flying jetpack men ( in fact three times )
1. The typical fan man and air powered jet pack.
2. The fuel thing that uses your back to control it.
3. The printable drone based one shown on tele yesterday.
Twice Cancer patients had more options lesser known.
1. The Dr. Lazartan ? ( what Fabio male model talked about his sister ).
2. The hotdog method ? ( injected liquid aluminum into cells and then heating up the area ).
In comparison to radiation or kimo ( a barberic method ).
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I do not know your son but you should know him. Get him to open up, and be honest and do not stab at his honesty. Love him no matter what, learn the good and bad.
I have known $#@$@#tty fathers who are great dads but beyond seeing their kids grow up and becoming young adults ( teenagers ) they have no clue of what to do next. Like all daddy can do is play and run out of the room when the dapers needs to be change and complain about how ... bread-winner this and vacation blah balh that.
The family tree must always rise.
You have to fight, never give up.
Always keep moving forward.
Do with love and if you need to summon anger and rage be god like.
When your gone he will be the only thing left of you on this world.
Even if you have any accomplishments all that will remain are a few words.
Like "the it girl" or "he hit on every girl" or "crazy $@#$@#" nothing else,
but "Their lies so and so blah blah" . Even all of that will go in time.
You have to fight and fight and fight with love, till their is nothing left but the skin on your bones.
The family tree must rise. Abraham Lincoln had more then twenty children.
only two of them survived. Imagine being alive during that time and seeing baby after baby being planted into the soil.
How do you know your not alive? When the day your unable to make a fist.
That is the first thing a baby can do. Cling on to somebody finger for it's dear life as a survival mechanism.
Beyond that who will make him survive? God, Uncle Sam and his bloody hands, some pretty skirt, nobody. Imagine being born in a world naked no home, no yard, no nothing. That is the world after our parents are gone.
We are naked.