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I am a Buddhist and if anyone wants to question my beliefs then they are welcome to do so...

 
 
igm
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 11:52 am
@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:

The idea that there is no self is a core part of Buddhist teachings, is it not? It isn't at all surprising that someone who is meditating for the express purpose of finding there is no self actually finds there is no self.

You are basically "discovering" a religious truth that you have already been taught is true. That isn't very much of a proof.


There is reasoning (Buddhist teaching using reasoning) to help undermine the belief in a self that exists as a thing apart from the functioning of the body/mind.

It is useful to understand what people mean when then have an idea about themselves i.e. the self they guess/believe they are.

Max do you have an idea of what a self is. Many would say it was singular i.e. not more than one e.g. I was born and I am living and I will die. One me, one I, one ego, one self. Would you say there is a single self or multiply selves during a lifetime?
Frank Apisa
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 11:57 am
@igm,
igm wrote:

maxdancona wrote:

The idea that there is no self is a core part of Buddhist teachings, is it not? It isn't at all surprising that someone who is meditating for the express purpose of finding there is no self actually finds there is no self.

You are basically "discovering" a religious truth that you have already been taught is true. That isn't very much of a proof.


There is reasoning to help undermine the belief in a self that exists as a thing apart from the functioning of the body/mind.

It is useful to understand what people mean when then have an idea about themselves i.e. the self they guess/believe they are.

Max do you have an idea of what a self is. Many would say it was singular i.e. not more than one e.g. I was born and I am living and I will die. One me, one I, one ego, one self. Would you say there is a single self or multiply selves during a lifetime?


Some would say, "I have no idea."

Those kinda people would be my kinda people.

Some would guess one way or another...and claim that their guesses are actual knowledge.

I suspect those kinda people would be more your kinda people, igm.

And there might even be some people who actually KNOW. They would be able to explain it better than the people who are making guesses and pretending their guesses are knowledge.

Or at least, it seems that way to me.

igm...do you know you are not deluding yourself when you claim you KNOW?
Frank Apisa
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 11:58 am
@Frank Apisa,
Since you say you cannot explain the former...

...perhaps you will explain how you KNOW you are not deluding yourself...if you answered "YES."
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igm
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 12:04 pm
@Frank Apisa,
igm wrote:

There is reasoning to help undermine the belief in a self that exists as a thing apart from the functioning of the body/mind.

It is useful to understand what people mean when then have an idea about themselves i.e. the self they guess/believe they are.

Max do you have an idea of what a self is? Many would say it was singular i.e. not more than one e.g. I was born and I am living and I will die. One me, one I, one ego, one self. Would you say there is a single self or multiply selves during a lifetime?


That's why I didn't ask you Frank... you won't let a discussion run its course you cut it short. A self would either have to be singular or multiple (as explained to Max in the post above) or both or neither... is that a guess and if so what is the alternative? You talk about logic well that is logical... the self has to be one of those four alternatives unless you can give me another?
maxdancona
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 12:15 pm
@igm,
I hope this isn't an argument over the definitions of words.

I have very strong sense of identity. I am an individual. Sure, I have changed over the years, but the basic state of who I am hasn't changed and my life has a steady consistent narrative. I have built and maintained relationships. I have accumulated ideas and places and things that have great value to me as an individual. All of these as a whole are unique to me and define who I am.

In my life experience, my self-identity is very important to me. I care about who I am as a person.

This is not a cause of suffering for me. It is a source of joy and contentment.

By the way, this way of thinking goes against Christianity as well as Buddhism.


igm
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 12:19 pm
@maxdancona,
maxdancona wrote:

By the way, this way of thinking goes against Christianity as well as Buddhism.

What way of thinking?
maxdancona
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 12:31 pm
@igm,
The idea that a strong sense of self is a good thing.
igm
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 12:38 pm
@maxdancona,
I asked you a simple question about how you see yourself because you keep saying there is no logic or reasoning to the Buddhist realization of non-self. There is reasoning and I can show you but if you are fearful of that explanation then ok.. but don't say Buddhism doesn't have reasoning behind what it teaches. It is not just blind faith which is fine for theism and good luck to them, there is logic and reasoning that underpin the meditation if required... it prevents doubt which blind faith does not.
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JLNobody
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:04 pm
@Frank Apisa,
Not the "self you are so certain does not exist"...it's the so-called self that "I" cannot find in the form of a substantial phenomenon behind "my" experience. That "self" is only another (in)substantial experience. Notice how our experience at this time rests on the presupposition of two selves interacting. When I was just doing my daily forty minutes of meditation there were only fleeting thoughts and perceptions but no Cartesian sense of a thinker and perceiver.
Do you think there is a self in my garage?
Frank Apisa
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:07 pm
@igm,
igm wrote:

igm wrote:

There is reasoning to help undermine the belief in a self that exists as a thing apart from the functioning of the body/mind.

It is useful to understand what people mean when then have an idea about themselves i.e. the self they guess/believe they are.

Max do you have an idea of what a self is? Many would say it was singular i.e. not more than one e.g. I was born and I am living and I will die. One me, one I, one ego, one self. Would you say there is a single self or multiply selves during a lifetime?


That's why I didn't ask you Frank... you won't let a discussion run its course you cut it short. A self would either have to be singular or multiple (as explained to Max in the post above) or both or neither... is that a guess and if so what is the alternative? You talk about logic well that is logical... the self has to be one of those four alternatives unless you can give me another?


I can give you another.

Something quite different from anything a member of the species Homo Sapiens can conceive of.

Something so completely different...humans are not even able to conceive of it.

I do not know what the true nature of REALITY is, igm.

I suspect you don't either.
Frank Apisa
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:09 pm
@JLNobody,
JLNobody wrote:

Not the "self you are so certain does not exist"...it's the so-called self that "I" cannot find in the form of a substantial phenomenon behind "my" experience. That "self" is only another (in)substantial experience. Notice how our experience at this time rests on the presupposition of two selves interacting. When I was just doing my daily forty minutes of meditation there were only fleeting thoughts and perceptions but no Cartesian sense of a thinker and perceiver.
Do you think there is a self in my garage?


I think there may very well be a self which you refuse to see or acknowledge. I do not know...but I certainly am not ruling it out as you are.

I do not know the true nature of the REALITY of existence.

I suspect you do not either.
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Frank Apisa
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:11 pm
Anyone just listening in...keep this in mind:

I am saying I do not know if there is a self...or if the self is an illusion...or one of the other possibilities mentioned or alluded to here in this thread.

Some of these guys are saying that they DO KNOW the true nature of REALITY.

It is a question that has baffled and challenged the minds of the most intelligent people ever to live on this planet.

There is the possibility that I have, by a huge stroke of luck, gotten onto a forum that has several people who have been able to do what all those other people were unable to do.
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JLNobody
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:18 pm
@maxdancona,
Max, I would not be "meditating" (maybe something else like successful "comtemplating" or "praying") if my sense of self persisted.
And I didn't want to give the impression that only Buddhists meditate. Hindu yogis and Sikhs, Islamic Sufis, Catholic mystics and many other "mystical" religions meditate.
I guess it is foolish to say that there is no self; perhaps it's more accurate to say that the self is insubstantial. It is the nature of the self that is what is studied in meditation and that turns out to be a kind of not-self *or no-mind/mushin in the zen experience). You have to meditate to know what these words mean.
Frank Apisa
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:28 pm
@JLNobody,
JLNobody wrote:

Max, I would not be "meditating" (maybe something else like successful "comtemplating" or "praying") if my sense of self persisted.
And I didn't want to give the impression that only Buddhists meditate. Hindu yogis and Sikhs, Islamic Sufis, Catholic mystics and many other "mystical" religions meditate.
I guess it is foolish to say that there is no self; perhaps it's more accurate to say that the self is insubstantial. It is the nature of the self that is what is studied in meditation and that turns out to be a kind of not-self *or no-mind/mushin in the zen experience). You have to meditate to know what these words mean.


HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT DELUDING YOURSELF IN EVERY THING YOU HAVE JUST SAID ABOUT THE REALITY OF "SELF?"
Frank Apisa
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:31 pm
@Frank Apisa,
If you joined the Branch Davidians…and did the exercises prescribed…you would have come to the conclusion that David Karesh was the Messiah.

You are essentially suggesting that one become completely immersed in Buddhism…and then one will see that Buddhism has the answers.

That is what every religion does.

Jehovah’s Witnesses, Mormons, Christians, Islamists…all of ‘em.

YOU CAN BRAINWASH YOURSELF INTO ACCEPTING THIS STUFF AS FACT…but then you must deal with the question I have asked repeatedly: How do you know you are not deluding yourself?
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maxdancona
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:36 pm
@JLNobody,
Quote:
You have to meditate to know what these words mean.


I have meditated. I was religious (I am no more). When I meditated, I felt in a deep way the love of God (as a sentient creator).

It makes sense that when Buddhists meditate for the purpose of getting rid of the sense of self, they get rid of their sense of self. And it makes sense that when Christians meditate for the purpose of feeling the love of God, they feel the love of God.

There are different religious experiences, all deep and meaningful and real. There is no reason to think that one religious experience is any more real than another.
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JLNobody
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:51 pm
@maxdancona,
Max, the "self" referred to in psychology is not the same as that in mystical theory. I believe that a person who has a strong sense of self psychologically is one who is more easily able to suceed in meditation than one who has a brittle sense of who he is. There is a very good zen teacher (Barry Magid) who is also a psychiatrist and psychoanalytic self-psychologist (Heinz Kohut) who acknowledges the difference in his book Ordinary Mind. I suppose it is less misleading to refer to "the subject" when discussing the true nature of the self. In the mystical perspective subjects are one with objects (and vice versa) and in psychology the self is the administrator of one's behavioral life. Something like that.
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Romeo Fabulini
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 01:56 pm
Maxdonca wrote:
Quote:
And it makes sense that when Christians meditate for the purpose of feeling the love of God, they feel the love of God


Who says Christians have to "meditate" to log onto God?
Many will tell you they don't need to because they're permanently logged onto him 24/7..Smile

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igm
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 02:15 pm
@Frank Apisa,
Frank Apisa wrote:


I can give you another.


Well you haven't and I suspect you won't... the logical examination of whether there is as self apart from the interactions of body/mind is scary for many and it seems you are one of them... no problem but remember selfishness is the root of most of the harm done in this world and selflessness is the root of much of the good done in this world.

Don't say there is no reasoning in Buddhism because I was going to show you reasons regarding the examination of the fiction that is called self and you and max have both shied away from it... again no problem and understandable. According to Buddhism a belief in something that is a fiction is like being in a dream and we suffer in many ways until all fictions are seen for what they are... fiction.



Frank Apisa
 
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Fri 20 Sep, 2013 02:24 pm
@igm,
igm wrote:

Frank Apisa wrote:


I can give you another.


Well you haven't and I suspect you won't... the logical examination of whether there is as self apart from the interactions of body/mind is scary for many and it seems you are one of them... no problem but remember selfishness is the root of most of the harm done in this world and selflessness is the root of much of the good done in this world.

Don't say there is no reasoning in Buddhism because I was going to show you reasons regarding the examination of the fiction that is called self and you have shied away from it... again no problem and understandable. According to Buddhism a belief in something that is a fiction is like being in a dream and we suffer in many ways until all fictions are seen for what they are... fiction.



It is not scary for me at all...and I do not understand what you base that notion on. Why would anyone be afraid of a self...and be comforted by the notion of non-self?

You seem to think that you KNOW the true nature of REALITY...so you can characterize certain things as fiction.

HOW DO YOU KNOW THE TRUE NATURE OF REALITY?

AND HOW DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT DELUDING YOURSELF?
 

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