@neologist,
neologist wrote:
So, do you consider the ancestor worshipers Buddhists? Do they?
One could be a Buddhist and have the cultural habit of ancestor worship. The habit will not help one to attain Buddhist enlightenment i.e. put a complete end to suffering by following the Buddha's teachings. Mixing the two will be like mixing two medicines, the outcome will be uncertain.
All actions can be part of the Buddhist path (no need to be a monk or nun but equally nothing wrong with being one) if the motivation and view are in accord with the Buddha's core teachings but it will work best if one just follows the Buddha's teachings without mixing them with anything else because it will be like a path without any distractions.
We are human (as was the Buddha) therefore very few of us will not get temporarily distracted. If we do then the path will be longer.. or fail... but there is plenty of time for all... we'll just have to suffer for longer.. if we become distracted.
I won't be able to say anything more on the non-buddhist subject of ancestor worship, neo. I've now said everything I want to, on the subject. I hope that finally you are satisfied with my reply.