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Sat 20 Jul, 2013 04:11 am
She has a boyfriend for around 3 months. She works for me I'm her boss. I sent her a text message to confirm a shift a shift confirmation. She replied ok ty. Then rings the work phone and asks me if i sent her a message. She has done something similar a few times.
Why?
attention seeking?
When we work I'm very bossy but fair. Is she turned on by this? Or just trying to work her looks because guys are always giving her attention. I mainly ignore her most of the time and focus on my work but I'm nice and talk to her sometimes. She is basically getting hot and cold from me.
Anyone?
@Spartan80,
Maybe her texting system doesn't work very well, and she sometimes needs to confirm it. Even if she wants to do the nasty with you eight ways 'til Sunday, she works for you and most companies have pretty strict rules against that. Throw this one back.
@Spartan80,
She has also rang me. Then rings me and ask's rings me back as if i rang her.
@Spartan80,
Then she's a dope, too.
Tell her that you cannot date anyone who works for you, that it is against company regulations. And if she wanted to date you, she will know. And if she didn't want to, she'll deny it, but will also figure out that her behavior has looked like this.
I really think she's just a flirty dope. Don't lose your job over this nonsense.
Are you reading more into this than what is really there?
From what you have described, she is insecure (hence the double checking on messages) and impulsive. She also lives on the phone.
Since you are "bossy" you may be turned on by this vulnerable acting, pretty, sanquine personality who gets a lot of male attention.
See this for what it is. You really don't want to go there, do you?
If you DO, then be direct and act on it. She has a boyfriend, however, and something tells me she's more connected to him than you think.
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