@farmerman,
You haven't addressed the problem either even if you shift from the admittedly dodgy "why" for the
how or
what question...how is there something rather then nothing assumes nothingness can be explained or that the concept refers to a potential state of affairs but on a closer look no one has ever given a proper account on the foxy theme of nothingness !
My personal vision is that there always was something, some form or variant of big bounce must be true, and that nothing is a relative simple minded concept solely applicable in common sense context such as there is nothing in the freezer or similar assertions...when this metaphorical usage is stretched the word collapses n becomes meaningless.