@igm,
I'll be doing six trips (so far) this year. Been to Cuba, Hawaii, Portugal, and I have three more planned for this year.
I decide what to do with my life in retirement, and I enjoy world travel (free will). That's also my "reality." I get to meet many people, visit interesting places on this planet, and learn about their history, culture, food, drink, and lifestyles. They're all "real" to me! As long as my health holds up....
I'm also very lucky. My nephew lives in Waikiki, and owns a condo on the 40th floor with good views, and we can stay there for "free." My sister, her husband, and I are planning to go later this year - during the winter months.
What's not to like and appreciate in this world of ours?