first time mom

That's a rather broad question. Advice regarding what? How old are you?

Is the father in the picture?

Did you do any reading about pregnancy and babies while you were pregnant? If not, I think you should start now. There's lots of valuable information out there, online, too.

Psychotherapy

Failing that as exceedingly expensive Lesly, do occasionally try two tabs each of kava kava, St John's wort, 5-HTP, ginseng

Results in an hour or so; no high, just a return to neutral


Also see Mame above; good q's, good advice

I'm 21 , father is in the picture and in particular i need tips for breastfeeding i have tried practically everything to get her to latch on but all she does is tug and naw on my nipple.

You really should talk to your doctor or public health nurse about this. Didn't the nurses in the hospital show you how to do this?

You also should be READING all about baby care. If she's not latching on and nursing, what are you feeding her?

There's a whole lot of information online about nursing mothers. Why don't you google it and see what they say?

Here are a few:

www.nestle-baby.ca/Breastfeeding

www.babycenter.com/breastfeeding

Breastfeeding Problems - Nursing Your Baby - Parenting.com
www.parenting.com/article/breastfeeding-problems

Nursing your baby is natural, but it's not always easy. Here's how to avoid common obstacles. Plus, check out 15 products that make breastfeeding easier


And here's a youtube which shows you:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RHIb_-a6bg

Mame I'm really impressed by your erudition as well as your alacrity and if you can do so without revealing anything critical to your ID I'd be interested to learn something about you, eg; sex (presumably f), age, ed., nationality, family, interests, motives, etc