@MattDavis,
My my children out of wedlock illegal!!! Where does that silliness come from and how does it impact the fact that it is self evidence that straight couples married or not married are going to have far more children inside relationships on average then gay couples?
The benefits for straight couples to married is there to encourage them to set up long term stable state license relationships for the good of the children that are very very likely to be produce in such relationships and that is clearly not the case for gay couples.
Now once more I am not hundred percent against allowing gay marriages in fact I kind of favor them more then not, still they are clearly not equivalent to straight marriages and therefore for that reason the voters should be the ones to settle this matter not the courts.