@m4rcin,
I had a tough cross country drive to make with my father a long time ago, and a chemist in the lab next door gave me a librium, as a friend, to settle myself. I took half of it, and still remember not feeling like I could just move my arm, luckily while being in the passenger seat. All these years later, I wonder if my father knew and understood. I've no idea how librium or valium worked, just that a lot of people used to take both.
I've had a friend who used hypnosis at first for her fear of flying - and she has since flown many times. But I don't remember if hypnosis worked. That was quite the fad for a while. I think what has happened is that she has gotten used to flying because she had to.
I have always loved flying, and I've been on some iffy planes. Still, I remember fear. I remember the guy ahead of me getting out of the Aeronaves plane in Tijuana kissing the ground, and the stewardesses with their rosaries moving in flight..
Realistically, driving is more of a big deal.