There is no reason why she should feel ashamed about it.
Quote:There is no reason why she should feel ashamed about it.
agreed, but i did not read shame i read a desire to get through it with minimal fuss and trauma.....IE the reason most women lie about such things.
I guess my point of view comes from the fact that I didn't feel traumatized by it.
more likely it is that you have decided to be you and that guys can either be fine with you or **** off. I applaud this. however, not everyone is in that place, and our OP does not seem to be.