@roger,
Mmmm. I can control voice volume re messages, but not the blasted ringer. (I suppose I need a new phone, but would it be better?)
It just blasts two feet from me, now at my computer, but, as I said, not all the way to my living room.
I'm wondering what is the tone level (high versus low tone) of the ringer of most phones.
I am thinking a lower tone ring on the audiology spectrum might be more hearable for me.