@msolga,
Quote:But seriously, I saw this as a thread which focused on patriotism in a big way & wanted to put a counter-view. I did that as tactfully as I could. I actually said more about my concerns about the creeping, ugly patriotism in my own country than anything I said about the US. And it is a real worry here at the moment, trust me, in a country with such a large & diverse multicultural population.
Why can't we discuss patriotism & whether it's a good thing or not?
I think it's a conversation worth having.
I understand what you're saying, msolga, and I don't disagree with you.
But what's celebrated on July 4th is the birth of our country, and the displays of national pride, even those that are over-the-top, reflect that celebratory spirit and the fact that we've survived and thrived as a nation. What is at all "ugly" about that sort of national pride or the festivities that celebrate the signing of a document that put forth our national ideals and guiding principles, ideals and principles of government which were not wide-spread in the world on July 4th, 1776, and ideals and principles which successive generations in our country have worked to bring into fruition since that time.
I have no problems criticizing my own country's foreign or domestic policies at any given point in time, or in debating and discussing policies in my country's history with my fellow citizens or with people from other places, I just don't see those things as having any relevance or connection to what's being celebrated on the 4th of July. This nation, and it's government, wouldn't even be here to criticize if that Declaration hadn't been signed in 1776. I'm glad we're here, I'm glad I was born here, and I think that's what Gracie was saying too. Patriotism, just like organized religion, can have ugly aspects when it's used as a tool of abuse or to make others feel inferior. But that wasn't what Gracie was doing, she was expressing her love of her country on the one day of the year when we can enjoy some sense of national unity and pride in our country's ideals and guiding principles rather than focus on the differences that can, and often do, divide us.
Why is it necessary to present a "counter-view" to any of that, or to do it in this particular thread? Can't some celebrations ever be free of divisiveness, just to have some fun--and having some fun was clearly what Gracie was doing. Does even a fun thread at A2K have to become more serious or combative in tone?
Your country does not have a larger or more diverse multicultural population than mine does, and while that is one of the major sources of our cultural richness, it can, and has, lead to ugly episodes here too. I think that by focusing on the things that unite us--the ideals and guiding principals that unite and inspire us as a nation--we find the counter-balance to the internal diverseness and exclusionary forces that try to divide and weaken us by marginalizing segments of the population.
In the wake of 9/11, in the weeks and months that followed the attacks of that day, I saw a burst of genuine national patriotism and unity in my country as I had never before witnessed in my lifetime. And there was nothing corny or false or "ugly" about the American flags that seemed to be flying on every home and motor vehicle around here--they were true expressions of national pride and unity--unity of strength, and identification, and purpose, and resolve, and grief. It was very much a reflection of our "We" as a people. And "we" realized we have much more uniting us than dividing us, and many realized just how much they loved their country because it was suddenly threatened and attacked. And I found that overt display of unity and love of country quite stirring .
I don't want it to take a national tragedy like 9/11 to make displays of patriotism or a sense of national pride acceptable. I don't want young people, like Gracie, to feel they have to modulate, or qualify, or explain, or defend, their exuberance in celebrating the birth of our nation, or their love of country. Whether one liked, or disliked, the style in which she expressed herself, she is simply happy she was born in the U.S.A., and she chose a very appropriate occasion, Independence Day, to express those feelings, I don't know why anyone would feel compelled to try to counter-balance that sort of love of country and appreciation of citizenship. While people are certainly free to do that sort of thing, for their own reasons, and not everyone who did so was trying to incite ot agitate, it does throw an unnecessary damper on something intended to be a "fun" thread. Sometimes we should just allow ourselves, and others here, to have some fun.