This man sounds like my husband - non smoker, exercised, social drinker - then got colon cancer in '07 and was dead two years later. That was 3 years ago, next month.
My 23 year old and 33 year old took it the hardest. They put him on such a pedestal that he no longer was the person i knew. I had to spend some time with the both of them in letting him become human, so they could let him go.
It sucks, really.
It makes me feel better that I believe Jay is in another place and time. Out of pain and probably on that second round of golf for the day . . .
@chai2,
chai2 wrote:thanks linkat.
Becca's on her way to the airport w/ her dad.
This morning, we actually had a couple of laughs about family stories
she told about John. It's good to remember all the good times.
Some people think that the most important
thing that we do in life is to
make good memories.
David
@chai2,
Sorry to read this and because you wrote about him, he will not be forgotten.
