@Lancaster2409,
I am very sorry for the loss of your father, and I can understand your anger at the man who was driving the car that killed him, and who did not stop his car to call for assistance, or to remain with him until medical help arrived.
Some of the people posting in this thread are simply insensitive jerks, who didn't know either your father or the driver of the car, and really aren't in a position to make personal comments, or judgments, about either of them, and it really would be better if you just ignored them rather than letting them aggravate you.
Other people posting in this thread were friends of the driver, and, while they do not defend his actions that night, including his driving drunk, they mourn his loss too.
I didn't know your father or the driver either, but I feel what happened that night was a terrible tragedy--it really destroyed two lives. The driver chose to pay with his life for his actions, so I'm not sure what more you would want from him. What happened could not be undone.
I'm not sure that all the anger being expressed in this thread right now serves any purpose other than keeping raw wounds open and festering. No man's life should be defined or judged by one night, and the memories of both your father and the driver deserve better.
I have no reason to have any negative feelings about your father, nor would I blame him for his own death, and I really can't understand why it would make anyone feel better to do that, nor can I understand why anyone would blame your family for anything about this accident, or get into any issues of your relationship with your father. It's really inappropriate. They should just let you grieve, and express your feelings about the manner of your father's death, and not try to dump any unwarranted guilt on you.
I really know nothing about your father other than the fact he was a cyclist killed by a drunk driver. I'd like to know more about him, but only if you care to share it.
Again, you have my sympathy for your loss.