@firefly,
That was a very informative article. Thank you!
This, in particular, caught my eye:
Code:In addition, educators are preoccupied with high stakes testing
(such as MCAS in Massachusetts) that holds them accountable for
students’ progress in math and literacy, but not for some skills that are
critical to children on the spectrum, such as social pragmatics or
emotional selfregulation
Just yesterday I sent a note to Mo's classroom teacher and SpEd teacher about this. They've been having a hard time working out times for Mo to go to SpEd for math. The spend an hour and a half each day on math and his teacher doesn't want him missing the lesson even though it's way over Mo's head. I started suspecting that it was test prep. I reminded them that we opt out of state testing and suggested that Mo might better use that hour and a half working on math fundamentals and writing with the SpEd teacher.
I think it's probably very true that foster kids are over-prescribed anti psychotics. The state really isn't willing to spend the money on getting a real diagnosis and so many people work under the assumption that "love conquers all".
My psychiatrist friend has an adopted daughter who has a full blown attachment disorder. Though she had studied this in school and had worked with children who had the problem she says nobody is capable of understanding unless they've lived it.
One day over coffee we started comparing notes:
The number of people who told us "they were so little when that happened, they should be over it by now".
The number of sly innuendos about how maybe we didn't love our kids enough to really help them overcome their problems.
The number of teachers who told us we if we'd spend an extra half hour on math facts every day that our kids would learn this stuff.
The number of smirks we've counted from "superior" parents about our kid's misbehavior.
It would be SO much easier to drug a kid than it is to deal with the problems.
According to her, a lot of parents
demand drugs even when there is no basis for giving them. If she won't prescribe them they find a different doctor.