@JGoldman10,
So, JG, why don't you date, so you can meet a nice young woman, get married, and have sex? There is no shortage of women looking for a man to marry.
Since you think sex is not permissible outside of marriage, I'd think you'd be in a hurry to get married, so you could experience and enjoy sex, and procreate, just as the good Lord intended you to do. You know, when the Bible was written, people's life spans were considerably shorter, and they married much younger. Do you think at the time the Bible was written, they expected people to go well into adulthood without ever thinking about sex or masturbating? Or even go well into adulthood without marrying?
So, what's your problem with dating, and finding a woman to marry?