@spendius,
". . . ; our social personality is a creation of the thoughts of other people."
Marcel Proust. Overture.
BTW Olivier--I did some Googling on the reference in the Overture to
Thetis and
Aristaeus and it revealed the major vulnerability of M. Swann. Among other things.
The paragraph beginning "But if anyone. . ." to "unsuspected treasures" is worth a little study. (Pages 18--19 in my Volume 1).
I'm off reading it again.