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Sun 5 Jun, 2011 04:07 pm
Let's say I work at Target and half a year into that, I found out a coworker don't like me. She doesn't do ne thing to me. It's just her personal opinion. Everyone else talks to me though. I still couldn't tolerate even ONE person not liking me. Anyway, if I put in my 2 weeks and leave quietly and say it's bc I'm going to school, would I have left on good terms? I wouldn't do what I did in previous jobs such as begging and giving her $$$ to like me. I wouldn't treat other coworkers like **** or stare at her for a long time. I wouldn't scream at anyone. Would that mean that job was a success?
Also, I been getting along with everyone up till that time and my performance review is really good.
@dirrtydozen22,
Hypothetically speaking, if you completed 1 1/2 years at Target, I would put that down as a success. I certainly wouldn't quit just because one person didn't like me.
Never, ever give someone money to like you. It won't work, and they will only hold you in contempt.
@dirrtydozen22,
Don't you think that it is bad timing to think about quitting a job when much of your town has just been wiped out by a tornado?
Please, DD, get some help to balance your moods. See a psychiatrist. A lot of people do, it is not the stigma it used to be and can be extremely helpful.
You post here routinely about your anger and don't seem to try to get help. Stop that.
@ossobuco,
At the very least, go back to the doctors that gave you your recent diagnosis of borderline.
And if you are having troubles getting your medications filled because of the tornado damage in your city, ask people to help you get it. That's what the Red Cross and FEMA folks are there for.
@Butrflynet,
I agree with butrfly and know there is help out there. Get a grip, dd - I know it is hard, but move toward help.
@Butrflynet,
Well, it's hypothetical. I meant if I leave quietly w/o raising hell over one person not liking me, that job still be successful. I'm still waiting to follow up on a job interview I had on Thursday lol,
@dirrtydozen22,
Hypothetically, what happens if at this next job someone doesn't like you?
@chai2,
I'm deciding to go the other route and leave quietly. I wouldn't beg or pay $$$ for her to like me or yell at people like I did before. I was wondering if doing it like that would be leaving on a good term even though I woulda quit for a stupid reason.
@dirrtydozen22,
You are obsessing about this again and again. We have hoped you would be seeing either your present therapist or a new one.
@ossobuco,
I am seeing my therapist. I was also just asking a question.
@dirrtydozen22,
Ask the question of your therapist.
And reread all your posts asking us about people not liking you and paying them to like you.
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