@dadpad,
THe volume change drives me insane too.
I do little chores like a load of washing, feed the fur kids, check out the web, unpack something, fold, iron, put chlorine in the pool, take out some rubbish, catalogue a song, catch up on my tweets on what I was watching (#qanda), maybe look up on IMDB a bit part actor that looked familiar from something I saw 20 years before (I'm almost always right), big channel surfer if I'm spoiling myself (got Austar +FTA and FTA digital so I can go ADD on my own ass).
Think Mrs Hinge would get resentful if she thought I was squeezing smooching in just because there was an ad break - and I'd never see the end of the show. How does one say 'Stop now the show is back on without having to sleep on the couch with black eye?