Bottom line, you can't change people, if you think you can, good luck with that.
People choose to change or not.
I gave it my best shot, let's see how you fare. Let's see how much patience you got
] JGoldman10 Mystery Theatre
[Spooky organ music rises.]
ANNOUNCER [in sepulchral voice]: Do you dare to attend opening night at [music swells; heavy echo on voice] JGoldman10 Mystery Theatre?
[Music trails off to accompaniment of eerie laughter, creaking door, squeaky adolescent male voice babbling inane questions, e.g., ”If Wolverine has wolverine powers, does he spray to mark his territory? Are there any superheroes named after body parts?” etc.]
ANNOUNCER: “They seek him heah, they seek him theah! Those fanboys seek him everywheah! He makes them wonder — ‘Who, how, when?’ — That demmed, infernal JGoldman10!”
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Tune in next time, when we delve deeper into dark secrets ... heh heh. Bwah hah. BWAH HAH HAAAH HEH HAAAAH HEH HAH ....
[Laughter fades into background, squeaky male adolescent voice rises, babbling as before, e.g., ”Is asking stupid questions a mutant ability? If metahumans have mutant abilities, are they still metahumans?” etc. Music continues to rise, mercifully drowning out the questions, then fades out.]
Yup, as you well know, many of us have been trying on the boards and in PMs for several weeks now, sometimes for hours at a time, with the same results. You get a request to help him get along better with people, then a barrage of insults when you do offer help, then an apology followed by yet another request to help him and another apology. Over and over again. If you don't answer his questions fast enough or with what he wants to hear, you get another barrage of insulting PMs.
It is a pattern that repeats from person to person and message board to message board all over the internet.