@Ionus,
I do apologies as I may have taken to much medication today but I would like to speak my mind and I do not mean to offend you nor anyone else!
I get many things wrong in my studies of human behavior so I can only hope that you all will forgive me!
This may make some of you mad at me at first but please understand that what you are analyzing are your emotions at first! please forgive me if I have this wrong!
I try not to be an absolutist in my thinking even though I try I am sure that I may fail at times!
Here is what I would consider reality to be!
Both Ionus and JTT are both very smart people!
The only thing that I see as the problem, "is that they are both seeing things from two completely different point of views which both may be correct to some degree!
The question that I have for the both of you is! "Could there be a logical reason why the other may behave the way they do?
Could you forgive me of my environment that may have made me see things threw a somewhat kaleidoscope lens, even though I prefer to see reality for what it is?
You may think that each other hates you or at the least disagrees with you but could they be right about anything they say or is it only you that can be empirical and the other is wrong?
Could you both try a new start at respecting each other? I do know that emotions may get in the way, "I am just curious if it is possible for one of you to try!