@ossobuco,
osso
I've no doubt that a fair percentage of the folks with whom I do battle here on A2K would find me quite charming in real life.
I know this will come as a surprise to many, but most people I meet think I'm quite swell. If they didn't, I would not be as successful as I am. Besides, I am quite swell.
I have been in high stakes business for many a year and met many a person who would be pleased to see me fail, and yet there have been, literally, no more than two with whom I could not enjoy a drink and a conversation. Neither of them had anything resembling a sense of humor, and both of them now reside in the dust bin.
This forum is either more or less of the real world, but it is not the world in which most of us operate.
I've been nasty here, because I won't be nasty in the real world.
A2K members are, in the main, one dimensional, and I am happy to face them on that flat plane.
Of late I have exposed to this forum much more of my personal side than I ever intended.
I value the connections so many made, but I am not so naive to think that some late comers responded more for the community than me.
I'm taking them all at their word and will respond in kind.
It won't take long to sort the wheat from the chaff.
I never wanted to be part of the A2K community, and I'm not sure I do now, however I can't dismiss what I perceive to be true compassion, no matter how vitriolic past exchanges have been.
Since everyone can see all of the threads posted here, some members chose not to respond to the one I recently posted. I've no problem with that. We now fully know where we stand.
Those that did, have my gratitude and my forebearance.