I have another somewhat unrelated story.
When I was 9 years old, my Girl Scout troop had a Christmas party. We were each to buy a little gift that cost $5.00 and we'd draw numbers and trade gifts. Well, my mom took me shopping for it and she saw a necklace with a painted, wooden Santa Claus on it. She said she thought it was cute and bought it, even though I thought the other girl wouldn't like it. But I didn't want to hurt my mom's feelings.
Well, we traded gifts and we were car pooling on the way home. This somewhat snotty, spoiled girl got my gift. Her mom was one of the helpers.
"Mo-oom," she whined, "I really don't like this gift. It's stupid."
"Dont say that, honey. You might hurt someone's feelings."
"Hmph." She turned to me. "Wanna trade?"
I thought about it for a second, but then I figured it would hurt my mom's feelings if she knew, so I said no.
It really hurt my feelings at the time, and remembering it makes me sad for whatever reason.
Well uh...I'm a sensitive kid, I guess.