@Telamon,
No, I am saying that
if you are an atheist you are "defining yourself according to the organized religions..."
Not you personally, anyone who claims to be an atheist. You claim no deity exists, and yet you have contrasted your beliefs against the concept of a deity enough to name it "atheism", which inevitably demands the contrast of "theism" to be understood... Silly, don't you think?
No, you shouldn't let people get away with assuming inacurate things about you. But that wasn't being done here, I assure you. As I said, I am trying to communicate my opinions about atheism.
I would say that if you don't know what to believe you have made good progress.
But it does perhaps suggest that it is time to examine the believer a little bit closer, rather than his beliefs?
I probably came pretty close to assuming something about you there.. Sorry