@tj1121,
the point of this site is not to be right or wrong, but to discuss both sides (or 3 sides) of an issue/topic.
there is no right.
there is no wrong.
there is only opinion. and that is what we are here to discuss. Some folks feel certain ways, other folks look at it completely opposite.
you most likely will never change anyones mind. but, that's not the point. the point is to discuss your opinion and listen to other's viewpoints. It is up to everyone on their own to hold their own moral values. of which, yours may not remotely fit.
but, that's ok. that's the point.
you're free to leave as you see fit, but i think you've got the wrong motive.