@Silverchild79,
Silverchild79;27070 wrote:So
the big thing the Dems want is a national health care system, wherein the poor can receive medial treatment for free on the dime of the middle and upper class.
If this passes expecting mothers would then in theory be able to terminate their pregnancy on the dime of those who oppose abortion. Meaning that even though I'm pro-life, I would have to give a portion of my wages to the government so that they could give it to mothers to have an abortion.
So can anybody find me some statistical data on moral abuses of government health care in Canada and Europe? Abortions, sex changes, anything you can find
ready, set, Google!
Hey Silver. Sorry I have been gone for a while. I am a full time student for business Administration, a 6 year old, 3 year old and one on the way, dealing with Post Truamatic Stress Disorder and some other things so I have been preoccupied with work.
I understand how you feel about abortion. I am pro-choice but I would never have an abortion. I went to doctors late just last week for my pregnancy because of insurance problems. I was on Medicaid and Medicare because I am disabled with the PTSD as stated above. I cannot maintian a job because I do not have the proper interpersonal skills and am terrible at conflict resolution. I have no filter that most people have when speaking. I speak my mind way too much and it causes a lot of problems. I also become triggered. Triggered is a term when your logical self shuts down. (thinking is gone) and only the emotional instincts are working. Because if the abuse I suffered as a child including physical, emotional, verbal and sexual abuse for countless years along with neglect any one in authority can trigger me if too demanding, mirco-managing, aggressive, or overly critical. I am in what is called recovery for inner rage over the injustices I suffer as a child and healing from the traumas so that I can function agian in society without disrupting the work environment and believe me I can be extremely disruptive. Anyway so because I could not work I qualified for Medicaid and Medicare to help pay for the weekly therapy sesson and medication. I also have bi-polar 2.
(please those of you who think I am just a welfare whore. I have been going to school full time 90 percent of my illness so that when I am well I will not be the working poor and still qualifying for welfare because I have two kids and also I worked for 15 years before my disability developed and put into social security about 200 per month over 15 years which is 35,000 dollars of my money that I am currently using not your "dime" anyway I met my husband Richard in October of last year and we got a along famously became engaged in Decemeber and decided to get married in May of 2007. Well I expected to lose all my Medicaid and Medicare because of his income. Medicaid dropped my very fast but Medicare and AARP for prescriptions plan B would not drop me until medicare had dropped me and somehow their two systems did not communicate with each other and it took weeks before Medicaid confered that I no longer qualified meanwhile I am missing my first trimester doctors appointments because Richards Insurance (he works for Mircrosoft as a software engineer) was covering me but I am not suppose to have two insurance so I couldn't use either one or get double fined. Finally after months of writting letters and phone calls Medicare and AARP finally dropped me. Apperantly Medicare and AARP are not income based. You qualify if you are old or disabiled regardless of your income they both have a premium to pay 100 for the AARP and 100 for the Mediare. I did not want to pay 200 dollars in premiums for me to see 2nd rate doctors when my husbands insurance paid through Microsoft was paying 740 dollars a month to cover the whole family. They made it very difficult for me to get off those programs even though I was already coverd through Microsoft premere Blue cross. I also wanted a better selection of doctors. I live in a rich neighborhood now and very few doctors take Medicaid or the medical coupon. The doctors on Medicaid and Medicare know they are not going to get a good overhead and well their treatment shows. If there was universal health care my baby and me would not be forced to wait for treatment while this insurance garbage had to get straighten out. I put myself in danger and the baby in danger by not visiting the doctor sooner but I did not want to burden by husband with 200 dollar doctor visits.
Also the doctor said that because i am 34 turning 35 in August that the baby had a 1-300 risk of having down syndrome and he talked test and if they show positive that I could abortion. I told him I would never do that unless the baby was going to come out severly mentally retarded or his/her quality of life was just going to be unbearable. I said I am pro-choice buy I myself would never get an abortion unless absolutly necessary.
I understand your concern not paying for something you feel is immoral and that only reason I am pro choice is because I grew up abused and neglected and now I was on the system. Gang members, rapist, serial killers and other of societies ills are the result of abuse and neglect of parents who did not want them. I do not think children should be forced into this world if their mother doesn't really want them. Children know when they are wanted and cared for and it is cruel and unusual punishement to force them to grow up with someone who dispises them. I would be willing to go pro life if we had a system that made sure that these unwanted children were well cared for both emotionally and financially. Mega centers for unwanted children and an overhaul of adoption and foster care including constant therapy for these children. I do believe a fetus is a life form and I think it is terrible to kill it but I also think it is terrible to bring a child into this world and treat it like a dog like I was.
I am willing to find options to keep abortion from happening but few republicans are willing to house, feed and take care of the unwanted children. They want to end abortion but at no cost to them. They do not want to take social responsibility for those who make mistakes in their lives and I have seen they are not willing to teach proper sexual education only abstanince which obviously is not working. We need proper sex education in our schools to prevent unwanted pregnancies and we need to find ways of getting boys to wear those dang condemns. We need to make it so it is not a stigma to be pregnant out of wedlock. Many young girls run to abortion doctors because they are afraid their "christan families" will find out she had sex!!! and the shame and guilt of what she has been told is a sin!! It is not all secular immoral woman going to abortion doctors. remember 80 percent of the people in America are Christians so far more christian girls are going to get abortion than you might think.
I am great with the idea of getting rid of abortion except in the most extreme cases but we have to be realistic here about how to do it. Chrisitans are going to have to losen up with this "sexual immorality" and suck up the fact that taxes will increase to support the unwanted children and they need to teach full and extensive sex education including birth control! Humans love sex and teens have very little control over their emotions and hormones. We expecting children who's bodies are screaming at them to propigate not resist their natural urges. What teen ever listens!!? and doesn't think he/she knows better than you??