@z0z0,
Quote:you have to do your best with the reality imposed on you, but you must also keep in mind that your own reality is only partialy afected by outside happenings, you need to make the necessary changes on a personal level before you start looking for them outside.
zee mark
You GOT it! We are all making choices as a result of where we come from and what we are taughts, and genetics. So in order to make a difference in a culture we have to begin with the fundemental understanding of that culture. A perfect example is when humanitarian aid goes to countries and then we find out that it has landed in the hands of corrupt politicans. This is a situation in which we need to look at the reality imposed on these people, the tribal and cultural values, and then seek a deep, long, lasting way to bring about a different prosperious future. Sometimes it just starts with an idea.
I find that pouring money into a region, while it is generous, is not really getting to the lasting methods of change. If people can feel proud of being responsible for a change, then they will make enormous efforts to protect and nuture the change for the future. The future will be bright and full of hope, and they can feel competent for being responsible for the change.