@oaktonarcher,
"Do you not voluntrarily identify with a hetero group? Pro-gay IMO is anti-hetero."
If by identify you mean: To establish the identity of.
If by identity you mean: set of behavioral or personal characteristics by which an individual is recognizable as a member of a group.
Then if I were to identify myself by my sexual preference, which I do not. My sexual partner preference is women who were born that way. I believe I would be associated with the heterosexual group of people.
However, if there is a heterosexual group who's primary tenent is to establish groups of people in categories of gay and anti-gay. I would not be associated with that group.
I do not define "pro-hetero as anti-gay". As a heterosexual, I do not consider people in terms of their sexual preference. Nor I do I agree with the "idea" that because one defines themseleves as heterosexual, you are therefore automatically against others whose sexual preference you do not attribute with yourself.
"What my mind decides. That is choice."
And exactly what is the process you use to make you decisions. Yes, whatever that is, I agree, that is a choice.
"My answer would be No. In your senario, do you think homo's would still have homo parade's?"
First, I cannot suppose what any homosexual individual would do as I do not identify with this group.
However, if I as a heterosexual, I chose to live in a homosexually dominated culture: I feel that their need to freely express their sexual choices would disappear.