Sometime Sun, I don't understand what you think you said that resulted in people here criticizing you, not caring about your feelings. But, you called a bunch of people on this forum "scary." And, now, you are obsessing about maybe they don't care about your feelings? Did you care about theirs?
Did I care about theirs?
Yes, but not enough.
I did not just open this thread because of 'that' incident, this thread plays to my mind more than just on one 'that' occasion.
This is not just about my feelings about 'that', if it were just 'that' I would have probably dismissed it because I would then be someone who never doubts or question him self.
I hope I at least showed this is a mathematical overhaul, self inspection, topic worry, thought awareness investigation and ego evaluation. I hope.
I think maybe you just mis-worded your first post. Are you certain that you think these people's opinions are scary, as in "frightening," to you? It's probably their anger that is scary. Anger is frightening in others, at times, and some here did explain why they appear angry. They spoke of how they had been treated, spoken to, before you came along with your "scary" remark. If you had said, "Your anger is scary to me," the ensuing firestorm could have been eliminated, maybe. You could have then asked, "Why are you so angry?" Then, we're discussing anger instead of scary.
yes I am certain opinion and ideas are scary to me,
yes and anger scares me also, I thought I made this clear, but should al;so make clear it is not just others anger that scares me it is my own,
don't know how to handle the thing,
I opened a thread before a while ago called "angers cure" it will be in the archive if you wish to find it.
Please don't take this the wrong way but I am over that whole mess.
Now is the time to address my deficiencies so as not make the same mistakes again.
You made a statement about a group of people, perhaps even a judgment call. They are scary because their views differ from yours? You are apparently very young? Live a little while, and you may change your views too.
Again the statement was about myself, it was not 'meant' to imply my thoughts were warranted or that my fear was/is an intelligent or rational one.
I have explained I did not mean to say they were scary, I meant I was scared.
To my mind and sensibilities 'that' is over and done.
Finished and out of my way.
All my thanks