fishin' wrote:
Quote:When my wife and I got married, we made a legal *commitment*. This commitment has real legal consequences include inheritance and financial responsibility to each other and our children.
People who are single don't accept this legal bond. There is a clear decision to be made. It is clear that the legal rights and responsibilities of marriage come with the *commitment*.
"People who are single don't accept this legal bond"??? Says who? I can just as easily buy a house with someone as you can with your spouse. Why should you spouse gain legal benefits from that just because you are married and I'm not? How is the financial responsibility between you and your spouse any different than someone I might jointly buy a house with?
The arguement for singles is the EXACT same argument as it's been for gays. You are denied benefits simply because of a piece of paper.
I don't get what you are saying.
All I am saying is that whether homosexuals have the right to marry or not will not affect heterosexual singles. In my experience, before I met my wife I had not incentive to marry. After I met my wife I was happy to get marry. Gay marriage has nothing to do with the lives of heterosexual singles.
That being said, it is clear to me (from experience) that married life is quite a bit different from single life. I would highly recommend it to anyone who has a committed relationship. I would highly recommend against it if you are not planning to be with your current partner for a long time.
There are many legal affects of marriage:
- My wife has power of attorney over me if die or am incapacitated.
- I have a financial obligation to my wife and our children.
- My wife gets my benefits including insurance.
- I can file taxes jointly.
- I have spousal priviledge to not testify against my wife in many legal situations.
- and there are more.
You seem to be making two points:
1) That if gays can get married, heterosexual couples will act differently.
2) There are no legal implications to marriages.
Both of these points are clearly false.