@TickTockMan,
The way that this thread has exploded into so many different but related arguments I think proves that what we all have in common with regard to this is:
A:a deep seated interest in the nature of reality and
B: a total lack of proof enough to convince others.
I can never prove that reality is all in the mind (and never would I want to) but no-one has convinced me that it is impossible.
Kenneth has never been able to prove that reality existed before people (how could he, no-one was there to know).
Religion seems to be a dead end without a massive leap of faith.
Discussions about reason and normality always seem to suffer when it comes to definition of what exactly is normal.
Reason and science have always told us that nothing comes from nothing, anything else would be contrary to the law of cause and effect. The idea of creating something from nothing lies in the realms of magic, which of course nobody believes in any more.
The only problem we have is that at some point, billions of years ago, everything came from nothing (whatever everything is), just look around and you are witness to it all. We can carry on with our circular arguments forever and maybe we will never have the proofs we need but the fact that "we" exist is magic enough, don't you think?