@Eudaimon,
Eudaimon;68200 wrote:Well. I enjoy how sexophiles like to advise their opponents to go psychologists, psychoanalists etc.: indeed, they consider their life to be healthy and these imbeciles... Drug addict thinks those who don't take drugs are cowards...
Not exactly sure what you mean by the above. Nobody said anything about it.
Eudaimon;68200 wrote:Allow me to show your hypocrisy. You are against only those things that are deemed to be outlawful in your world: sexism, racism, fascism etc. If I started to protect Stalin or Lenin or Alexander of Macedonia, you will not ban me. Further, surely, if someone started posting how he loves women, you wouldn't ban him. Yet this would be not farther from the truth than this thread. It's all because of your personal preferrances, which is evident from style of moderators' and admin's post.
Aren't you assuming quite a bit here? We had a guy that talked about his philosophy of loving dolphins, he was banned as well. Not for discussing it but because sex with dolphins is smut for another site, not this one.
However, you are correct. Personal preferences do reflect in moderation and administration style, that's a given on most forums. If it's my personal preference that this forum shall lean away from sweeping insults then that's our choice. If you don't like it, then you are able to find a forum that better fits your style of passive administration. They're out there so please don't end that search.
Eudaimon;68200 wrote:And I don't feel any insult if someone started preaching how he/she hates men, although my body is male. It's just that you cannot yet ascend from the level where these differences (in genital organs) has any meaning.
Congratulations on this. It doesn't bother me either. Has nothing to do with this thread topic or why this individual was banned.
Eudaimon;68336 wrote:To me his position is still unclear (unfortunately, I am not so perspicacious as thou or Justin), and I should like to hear his arguments. Now, I, however, shall never know that ('Dura lex, sed lex').
It is unclear yet his voice has spoken that of which he feels or perceives in the heart. That's fine and dandy.
Eudaimon;68336 wrote:And this statement that if someone started logically prove his statements, they would not ban him, is false. What if someone started speaking that the holocaust was necessary, or that Negroes must be slaves 'because their race is inferior to the white'? They would definetly ban him. Yet if some one started protecticting Stalin's regime with its GULAGs, or justify fires of the inquisition, they would probably started objecting to this, yet not ban. Why? Because these 'judges' are also conditioned and look on the world from that tiny window society gave them and see everything in the colour which society designed for them.
What if? What is it you are saying? You are shooting from the hip with loaded assumptions based on how you perceive things here and how this forum is moderated. Like I said, nobody is keeping you here, if you don't like it then find the place on the net that best suits you. As far as I'm concerned, I realize that neither I, this forum, or this administration can possibly please everyone and that's perfectly OK, that's not the purpose of it.
Eudaimon;68336 wrote:Try to read carefully what I am typing. WE ARE NOT MEN AND WOMEN. This division is artificial, based on identification with body. The true self is sexless. Yet thy posts and thy sense of insult shows obviously that keepst identifying with thy poor body. And (please, understand what I mean) I should indeed like that on this forum there would be neither men, nor women, neither Christian nor Buddhist, neither Russian, nor American. These all are labels that separates us. And no, that poor chap didn't say he hated THEE, stop that false identification with genitals, with anything, and thou wilt feel indescribable freedom. And none post will be able to insult thee. As I have just said: say thou hatest men, that will not insult me. Just because I, true I, am not man. I hope thou gottest that.
I fully agree here but for every 1 that agrees we'll find 1000 that do not, so what's your point?
Eudaimon;68336 wrote:I didn't say that ALL drug addicts think that, yet this si really very common.
While this may be common in your world, it's not something I see as common in mine.
Eudaimon;68521 wrote:No, my friend, they would (I know that from some past discussions). But let us better not argue about that but ask them... Maybe someone will condescend to respond...
Like I said before, you don't really know. You are assuming things but again, it really doesn't matter. If you want to administrate this forum and think you can do a better job, I'm more than willing to arrange that. No sense in arguing about anything. If our moderation team and the active and present members of this forum don't think we should discuss certain things on this forum then that's up to them. Your opinion is very important to us and your voice heard but you seem to assume an awful lot, but again this isn't an argument.
Let me reiterate so it's understood. Personally I don't care to appease everyone. Anyone who thinks they can is seeing ghosts. It's simply not possible. That said, this is not a forum for everyone and will never be. Sometimes we have to ban people and although none of us like to have to do it, it's part of administering a forum. After 3 years of administering a community we've evolved to know and understand that it would take too much energy to make everyone happy and still not accomplish that. So, like you'd do in a garden, we pull the weeds and maintain the forum to the best of our ability.
Eudaimon;68336 wrote:I see that biased posts like Justin's and Khethil's made him think that all are sexophile here, and their reaction is nothing but protection of their own lifestyle, which I think is obvious from their hateful posts.
No that's not it at all and our posts were not hateful. If that's how you perceive them, then maybe you should interview forum administrators and moderators and find the best one that you agree with and then settle in there. This is fundamentally a choice.
You have a choice to be here and we have a choice of how moderation and administration will be executed. We're not perfect at what we do, we simply do the best we can with what we have to work with. It's about choices we all have.
Eudaimon;68336 wrote:I am not an advocate and I may be mistaking, yet after that disgusting acts of forum administration, we shall never know what was his real position.
Our position has been made very clear.
Eudaimon;68336 wrote:Look, were there no identification, there wouldn't be even desire, even urege to ban anyone... As I have just said: I really don't care if someone started posting how he hates men. I should probably even agree with him concerning those who call themselves men:).
This is a garden and we can choose what we will allow to grow in this garden. It's a very simple concept.
If you'd like to administrate this forum and think you can do a better job, please don't hesitate to PM me and maybe we an arrange it because to be honest, explaining and managing any community takes a lot of energy and costs a lot of money.
Peace!