@Sarah phil,
Quote:why does war make sense.
Usually, war is senseless. All war is sparked by senselessness. However, under certain circumstances, war may be necessary. For example, responding to Nazi Germany and intervening in other genocides like Rwanda or Darfur... oh, wait, only the first example was historical, sorry.
Quote:Why love someone to lose them.
It's tough, I know. But nothing is permanent. Everyone will die at some point. It's a fact of life, really. There is a considerable lesson to be learned, though. The experience of losing a loved one should help instill compassion for others who will undergo the same experience. Perhaps this sort of compassion is just what we need to combat future war. Or maybe just some more nuclear warheads, but that's an entirely separate debate.
SIDS, brutal parents, birth complications, sickness, all sorts of causes.
Quote: and just who is god.
The closest one can get to an expressible answer is in figurative language, and there exists plenty of that to read already. Perhaps we might think of scripture and teaching like this - a finger pointing to the moon. The finger is the teaching and scripture, and it all points to the same thing, the moon. Of course, each finger will have a slightly different trajectory; teaching and scripture will have differences. But they all point to the same thing, the moon, or God in this analogy. Also, the fingers musn't be confused with the moon itself, they only point the direction. Thus, no scripture or teaching is perfect for all people, in all places, at all times. Further, because the directing hand is not the moon, to see the pointing finger is not the same as seeing the moon. Reading scripture and hearing teaching is not the same as experiencing God. You have to actually look up to the sky to see the moon. You have to search to find God. Just as the pointing fingers will help you spot the moon, scripture and teaching will help you find God.
Quote:why not live each day and be.
Beats me. Though, I've met a great many people who share that idea who also disagree on the proper way to go about living each day and being. This suggests to me that there is a great deal more to be considered even after we understanding that we should just live each day and be. We need to look into just how that plays out in the daily life of a human being.
Quote:god brings folks together and sets rules etc. The rules exclued others tho.
Often times, yes. However, don't we also see the opposite occuring? Many spiritual leaders have been notably inclusive. Few modern men have been more inclusive than Dr. King.