@Linkat,
Oh, I'm all for elderly people being able to work if they can. I'm sure that many folk have to work to be able to eat...
but I
think for a great many elderly folk, it's more about getting up, getting out and not withering away and dying. it gives them a purpose, self esteem and the feeling that they are not too old to be forgotten. Many elderly folk sit around and are very isolated in their "old" world - I think it's good if they are given the opportunity to do something that makes them feel worthwhile. I know it can be frustrating if you are in a hurry for something to be done - but, to be honest, you don't have to be elderly to feel as tho your body doesn't work too quickly and it can be frustrating as heck being the "slow" person. I think if an older person / elderly person is willing to work and is able to do the job, even if it takes a little longer, well, I would employ a little wee old man or woman if I could.
I don't have a relatively busy life like others do so I guess I don't have to worry about waiting so much...
put it this way - if I could afford to employ a gardener or someone to help me, I would probably employ an older person and feel more assured that they would probably do a real good job, possibly take more pride in their work - maybe take more care to make sure the job was done properly. As I say, I don't live a fast life and I live in the country - I think my views are more than likely geared towards the elderly and the environment I live in, perhaps I would feel differently if I were living a city/town life.
Yes - if I saw an older person struggling with something, I would offer assistance. Probably tho, despite their age, they would be more able than me most of the time. Pride is a wonderful thing - sometimes, if you offer too much to assist, their pride can be taken away from them. A lot of folk don't see themselves as "old" and in their head don't feel "slow" - I do believe if they are choosing to work - then that is a good thing for them and if it adds some time to my day, I think it would be worthwhile. I also think that when an elderly person is "nice", it's usually genuine. Not so much with the younger generation where "have a nice day" is sometimes just words. Bit of a generalisation for the younger folk there - not meaning to be nasty about it.
I was brought up in an "old people's home" - I lived it for most of my childhood - I disliked the elderly intensely when I was very young - the smell of wee and all that, screaming heebyjeebies at night-time... yuk... the hugs and the having to sit and listen to the stories - disliked it INTENSELY. I was also brought up with the "respect your elders" and "they fought for my country" which was drummed into me.... it's only really now, in my 40's, that I appreciate the elderly more, the stories became interesting and a hug could make all the difference to their life.
I think I am a young fuddyduddy